So life has been pretty good! Dawn had 5 amazing days off and it was so nice to just be lazy with my lover!! But it's back to real life as we know it!
We are putting 50.00 aside every week so I can go home for my Nephews graduation in May! It's really tight doing so but it's totally worth it!
I cannot believe how expensive it is to travel! We definitely couldn't afford to fly or take the train so we will taking the mighty uncomfortable bus.. I'm gonna need a complete body massage afterwards lol!
So I'm probably the most clumsy person alive! I was doing dishes and the glass decided to break! Sliced my pinky finger open pretty deep.. I didn't go to the ER because I'm up to date on tetanus and all that!
But other than the silly cut life is good and I have no complaints! I'm happy, and in love! Hope all is well!
Aleasha
A peek into wedding planning, life planning and a true love between partners, and soul mates.. We are also happy to add that we are trying to conceive!!
I love being in love with you my darling love
Thursday, January 17, 2013
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Blogger on my IPhone
So I decided to download blogger for my phone! It's pretty neat! I'm still trying to figure it out though.. I hope everyone has had a beautiful and great weekend!
I also decided to enter Wedding, Wedding Planning, Same Sex Wedding Planning into the App Store search engine and I found A LOT of great apps that will be so helpful and beneficial to planning this wedding!
Dawn and I are still contemplating what date to chose.. Our Anniversary is July 4th 2008.. Do we pick this date? Or keep that as a special date when we fell in love? I don't really want a fall/winter wedding because it gets really cold here..
I guess the closest I'd come to fall would be September.. Ugh idk! I'm tired of thinking about this wedding planning crap! Lol good night!
Aleasha
I also decided to enter Wedding, Wedding Planning, Same Sex Wedding Planning into the App Store search engine and I found A LOT of great apps that will be so helpful and beneficial to planning this wedding!
Dawn and I are still contemplating what date to chose.. Our Anniversary is July 4th 2008.. Do we pick this date? Or keep that as a special date when we fell in love? I don't really want a fall/winter wedding because it gets really cold here..
I guess the closest I'd come to fall would be September.. Ugh idk! I'm tired of thinking about this wedding planning crap! Lol good night!
Aleasha
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
WHomp WHomp..
So I had a conference call with my lawyer today.. I love my lawyers! They are by far the best lawyers god has blessed me with. Even if I feel like I'm asking a stupid question they always answer with such kindness..
We talked about my case and what the workers compensation doctor has reported what "HE THINKS" and all that bs. Well it boils down to my doctors opinions is what matters. I know that I can't stand for more than 5-20 minutes without severe pain in my entire back and neck. My right leg is always tingling or numb! I fall allllll the time due to numbness or weakness.
We're constantly having to send this report in and play a waiting game to have anything done for my injuries.. It's so annoying and time consuming but I have faith in my lawyers 100%!! But here we go again with going back to court. Not a favorite but I'm sticking it out.
I want to not feel pain everyday. I want to be able to sleep on any side I want other than one side or on my back! I miss so desperately sleeping on my stomach! But I sometimes end up on my stomach and omg can I just tell you that I am in so much pain I literally cannot move for a good 30 minutes to an hour.. And that's just to turn over onto the side I CAN sleep on.
I don't even type my blogs. I talk through my mic and it thankfully does a pretty good job for me.. Except for when my mic decides to go out on me lol.. I'm constantly having anxiety attacks scared that I will never be able to be "normal" again. And dealing with all of this stress doesn't help with my anxiety at all! And don't get me started on my chest pains! haha.. Anyways there's my thought and complaint about Workers Comp!
I want to thank you my lawyers and their teams for standing by my side..
We talked about my case and what the workers compensation doctor has reported what "HE THINKS" and all that bs. Well it boils down to my doctors opinions is what matters. I know that I can't stand for more than 5-20 minutes without severe pain in my entire back and neck. My right leg is always tingling or numb! I fall allllll the time due to numbness or weakness.
We're constantly having to send this report in and play a waiting game to have anything done for my injuries.. It's so annoying and time consuming but I have faith in my lawyers 100%!! But here we go again with going back to court. Not a favorite but I'm sticking it out.
I want to not feel pain everyday. I want to be able to sleep on any side I want other than one side or on my back! I miss so desperately sleeping on my stomach! But I sometimes end up on my stomach and omg can I just tell you that I am in so much pain I literally cannot move for a good 30 minutes to an hour.. And that's just to turn over onto the side I CAN sleep on.
I don't even type my blogs. I talk through my mic and it thankfully does a pretty good job for me.. Except for when my mic decides to go out on me lol.. I'm constantly having anxiety attacks scared that I will never be able to be "normal" again. And dealing with all of this stress doesn't help with my anxiety at all! And don't get me started on my chest pains! haha.. Anyways there's my thought and complaint about Workers Comp!
I want to thank you my lawyers and their teams for standing by my side..
Wedding.. Wedding Wedding!
Ok this is a lot of stress and I honestly don't know how we're going to do this wedding business lol. I wish we had a nice back yard to have our wedding at. It'd be really nice.. But we don't. And we have family that does but it's an hour and a half up northern New York..
Should we use their property and just invite people to see if they'll show up or what? Oh I don't know. I know that we need to get on the ball of planning this wedding! And we definitely need to get on the ball of setting a for sure date and saving up more money!
We are on a very very tight budget and that's not helpful what so ever when it comes to planning a wedding. So we'll have to downsize our list! We won't be able to pay for peoples hotels/motel stays. They'll have to take care of that them selves. Does that make me a bad bride or person?
A lot of places around here won't even hear of having a same sex wedding at their venue and that really upsets me and bothers me. But I'm supposed to just accept that as well right?
I just really wished that something or someone would say hey i'm close buy use my place at no charge and who cares if you're a lesbian. But lesbionest about that one lol. Too many close minded people in this world that is for sure!
Dawn's grandma wants us to do it in her back yard but I don't think so.. It's sadly a nice yard but it's a mess. There are people there that like to ruin things and just trash things. It's sad. You ask them to keep up with it and stop doing the things they are doing to ruin the yard but they don't care! It has nothing to do with them so why should they right? HA!
I'm starting to think we should just dress up in our dresses and walk our happy selves down to the Justice of Peace ( it's literally right down the street from my house) and get married then throw a reception/party afterwards. BYOB? Too redneck? Well I don't care lol. I'm an okie and I said Bring Your Own Beer if you wanna party it up! It's not a party to us. It's a day of becoming one and celebrating that we're able to do so in the state of New York!
Any tips or ideas? Would it be terrible to use paper plates if we're having a summer wedding and doing a cook out thing? Oh I need some guidance and help because lord knows I (Aleasha) will be planning and doing everything. I just need help. Is that too much to ask of or for?
Sorry for being a baby. I'm just stressing about how to go about the wedding. I can't even think of a theme or idea on how to come up with one.? Gay Pride wedding? Too tacky? HELP HELP HELP!!
Aleasha
Should we use their property and just invite people to see if they'll show up or what? Oh I don't know. I know that we need to get on the ball of planning this wedding! And we definitely need to get on the ball of setting a for sure date and saving up more money!
We are on a very very tight budget and that's not helpful what so ever when it comes to planning a wedding. So we'll have to downsize our list! We won't be able to pay for peoples hotels/motel stays. They'll have to take care of that them selves. Does that make me a bad bride or person?
A lot of places around here won't even hear of having a same sex wedding at their venue and that really upsets me and bothers me. But I'm supposed to just accept that as well right?
I just really wished that something or someone would say hey i'm close buy use my place at no charge and who cares if you're a lesbian. But lesbionest about that one lol. Too many close minded people in this world that is for sure!
Dawn's grandma wants us to do it in her back yard but I don't think so.. It's sadly a nice yard but it's a mess. There are people there that like to ruin things and just trash things. It's sad. You ask them to keep up with it and stop doing the things they are doing to ruin the yard but they don't care! It has nothing to do with them so why should they right? HA!
I'm starting to think we should just dress up in our dresses and walk our happy selves down to the Justice of Peace ( it's literally right down the street from my house) and get married then throw a reception/party afterwards. BYOB? Too redneck? Well I don't care lol. I'm an okie and I said Bring Your Own Beer if you wanna party it up! It's not a party to us. It's a day of becoming one and celebrating that we're able to do so in the state of New York!
Any tips or ideas? Would it be terrible to use paper plates if we're having a summer wedding and doing a cook out thing? Oh I need some guidance and help because lord knows I (Aleasha) will be planning and doing everything. I just need help. Is that too much to ask of or for?
Sorry for being a baby. I'm just stressing about how to go about the wedding. I can't even think of a theme or idea on how to come up with one.? Gay Pride wedding? Too tacky? HELP HELP HELP!!
Aleasha
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Here goes to wedding planning! AGAIN!
So we weren't able to get married last year because NOTHING was working out at all! Everything was getting in our way or nothing was working out and we just said ENOUGH! It was obviously not meant to get married yet. So we will for sure be saying I Do this year! I don't care if it's at just the Justice of peace tbh lol. But of course I want a wedding. I'm a girl! Come on! lol
I've got a book called: Wedding Planning for Dummies lol.. Yes they made a book just for that! And I'm also using Pinterest for inspiration as well. We don't come from money what so ever so we're going to be paying for everything and funding everything. It'll be tight and a challenge but totally worth it in the end.
I do plan on going to Micheal's again to start stocking up on wedding supplies. I'll write a blog about what we need and everything else.
Seeing we're a same sex couple trying to have a same sex wedding in the state of NEW YORK where it is officially LEGAL! YAY US! We'd love to hear some ideas. Maybe y'all know of vendors that'd help donate their services to us since we don't come from that much money. Anything donated would be used and greatly appreciated that's for sure!
We need to sit down and make an OFFICIAL wedding date and stick to it! I don't want to yo yo on dates again. I really was embarrassed that we kept changing the date and everything and I just don't want to deal with it. If people can't come or have to work then that's their problem. We're choosing a date and sticking to it. Our biggest problem was planning around everyone else's lives and we simply just can't please everyone!
That being said we understand times are hard and people have to keep working or can't afford to take off of work and that's 100% completely understandable! Would we really like for you to be apart of our special day? Of course we would but we're not going to throw a fit over anyone not being able to come. Because in the end it boils down to it's OUR day.. Not EVERYONE elses day. Right? Right!
I'm very excited to start planning again! Tomorrow I'll go through the items we need and write up a blog for y'all. Have a great week!
Ok ok ok.. So lol.
Dawn and I have busy lives and it's really hard to find the umph or time to blog. I'll do a short recap from January 2nd up to now. :) Try my best that is lol.
January 2nd 2013-January 8th 2013;
We had to go back to Dawns work and where she works is just crazy! It's literally like a roller coaster ride of mixed emotions and stress! We went to her job and of course not knowing what to ever expect is a little on edge of an anxiety attack! One day the lady she takes care of is sweet as apple pie and then she's sourer than air heads! But that's to be expected. Especially when she has to deal with a son that is always annoying lol.
So what we've learned on how to deal. Even though we have days that we want to just walk away we need for Dawn to have this job. I'm stuck on workers compensation due to an injury back in 2010. So we now have this out look of we just don't give a damn. Just smile and nod and agree then do the job and leave. That's all you can do. Even if you don't agree it's not worth the argument at all!!! Don't think that we're being cowards to not voice our opinions at all! When you are dealing with "rich" people they think they know EVERYTHING! And we all know they're idiotic jerk faces lol. But back to we aren't cowards at all! If he starts his bs we put him right in his place and tell him to back off. I'm not sure he knows how to handle it but he can deal. With her it's been pretty pleasant and enjoyable to be there since we've had a new outlook and just go with the flow.
Maybe it's not the best out look in the situation and maybe we should walk away but like I said earlier we can't! Especially when our 2nd month cell phone bill was $209.00!!!!! I only get 100.00 weekly with my workers compensation. And Dawn makes 50.00 a day M-F.. We're learning how to budget and spend out money.. It's hard but we're getting there. So this week we had to pay our cell phone bill leaving us with literally 30 dollars to our name for the week. Lets home and pray that I'm getting a check this week some time lol.
So the first week and a half of the new year hasn't been that bad. Just trying to stay on a positive outlook on everything! Yes it can get hard that's for sure but just have to say this is OUR year! I hope everyone is having a great New Year so far!
January 2nd 2013-January 8th 2013;
We had to go back to Dawns work and where she works is just crazy! It's literally like a roller coaster ride of mixed emotions and stress! We went to her job and of course not knowing what to ever expect is a little on edge of an anxiety attack! One day the lady she takes care of is sweet as apple pie and then she's sourer than air heads! But that's to be expected. Especially when she has to deal with a son that is always annoying lol.
So what we've learned on how to deal. Even though we have days that we want to just walk away we need for Dawn to have this job. I'm stuck on workers compensation due to an injury back in 2010. So we now have this out look of we just don't give a damn. Just smile and nod and agree then do the job and leave. That's all you can do. Even if you don't agree it's not worth the argument at all!!! Don't think that we're being cowards to not voice our opinions at all! When you are dealing with "rich" people they think they know EVERYTHING! And we all know they're idiotic jerk faces lol. But back to we aren't cowards at all! If he starts his bs we put him right in his place and tell him to back off. I'm not sure he knows how to handle it but he can deal. With her it's been pretty pleasant and enjoyable to be there since we've had a new outlook and just go with the flow.
Maybe it's not the best out look in the situation and maybe we should walk away but like I said earlier we can't! Especially when our 2nd month cell phone bill was $209.00!!!!! I only get 100.00 weekly with my workers compensation. And Dawn makes 50.00 a day M-F.. We're learning how to budget and spend out money.. It's hard but we're getting there. So this week we had to pay our cell phone bill leaving us with literally 30 dollars to our name for the week. Lets home and pray that I'm getting a check this week some time lol.
So the first week and a half of the new year hasn't been that bad. Just trying to stay on a positive outlook on everything! Yes it can get hard that's for sure but just have to say this is OUR year! I hope everyone is having a great New Year so far!
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
January 1st 2013.. Here we go!!
So here goes another year.. I want to welcome 2013 with open arms. Live and Love life to the fullest that needs to be lived! Dawn and I didn't get to get married last year (2012) and that's ok. That just means we're meant to be married this year. Now to pick out a date is another issue to deal with! All I know is I want it simple, romantic and full of laughter and happiness!
2013 will be full of changes for us both. Moving to where our hearts desire us to move to, Settling into a new home that is OUR OWN home! And then once we're settled we'll begin TTC (trying to conceive) once again. We've had to put this on hold due to our living situations, jobs, and life style in New York.
I want to blog every day of this year.. I will try my hardest to make time to blog. Maybe even have Dawn write an entry or two here and there :)
We are so excited for many beautiful life experience's to come to us and wish everyone a beautiful enriched year to come! Happy New Year!
2013 will be full of changes for us both. Moving to where our hearts desire us to move to, Settling into a new home that is OUR OWN home! And then once we're settled we'll begin TTC (trying to conceive) once again. We've had to put this on hold due to our living situations, jobs, and life style in New York.
I want to blog every day of this year.. I will try my hardest to make time to blog. Maybe even have Dawn write an entry or two here and there :)
We are so excited for many beautiful life experience's to come to us and wish everyone a beautiful enriched year to come! Happy New Year!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
ARE YOU KIDDEN ME?
So let me start off with Hi I’m Aleasha and I’m a big fat
lesbian!!! Oh and guess what so is my fiance!! Well anyways I’m so for
everyone being with ANYONE as long as it is REAL LOVE and REAL
HAPPINESS! Not just because you don’t want to be lonely or alone! Well I
post things on my facebook about LGBT rights and rainbow stuff to show
my support for everyone that may be who they are as a human! And my MIL
(mother in law) has a dumb ass boyfriend who I went OUT OF MY WAY to be
nice to this prick ass bitch! He commented on a post of mine saying “God
damn tone it down a fucking bit. You don’t see me posting about how I’m
heterosexual alpha Man hear me roar bullshit all over the place jesus”
Ok so I was like excuse me if you don’t like something then go about
your own damn business and leave me alone. Well my fiance Dawn at dinner
tonight told my MIL that George needs to apologize before he even
thinks about coming to our wedding and of course her mom was starting to
be snooty saying that she’s not getting in the middle.. Well um excuse
me if you were a real.. I mean a REAL fucking woman you would say accept
my family and my children or we’re not going to happen at all! Nope of
course not.. The dick and money from them is more important to her than
her own family! So here we are trying to talk to her calmly about it and
explain that what he did was wrong and he should apologize. Well than
my fiance’s drunk as idiotic piece of shit uncle turned it into a big
fight! And of course like my MIL always does.. Aww poor me I’m not ever
supposed to be happy my family is going to choice what I should do with
my life booo fucking hoo! No one cares who the fuck she’s with but she
always puts the assholes before her family! NEVER would I allow ANYONE
to treat my child like this.. I would kill them! I guess this makes me a
better person Idk.. But let me ask you a question! If I were your child
and your bf,husband,wife,friend,or other family member said that about
your child would you honestly take up for that person instead of your
child? Be honest.. Would you? Oh and take up for the family member that
starts the fight in the first place? I’m so over this and it’s so sad
cause I know it hurts Dawn. I know it hurts her a lot that her family is
the way that they are.. It really breaks my heart! I just think that
Dawn and I need to move away from both families.. Meaning mine and hers
and just be happy. Obviously both of our families wanna put us down and
be against us. Yeah.. We’re totally moving away from family.. We’ll be
our OWN family! I’m sorry but I’m raging pissed over this..
Really Pissed
Aleasha
Really Pissed
Aleasha
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Hello headache...
Oh and hello you lovely migraine that loves to visit me almost everyday! I'm not trying to complain and I'm so sorry if I'm coming off like this.. But can I get a few days and not have a headache.. I've seriously thought about cutting all of my hair off because it's the longest it's been in years! And when I am doing something like cleaning, doing laundry, cooking and ect.. I have a very bad habit of putting my hair up into a tight pony tail.. Why you might ask.. Well my mother, aunts, grandma and ect would put my hair up sooooooooo tight I swear my face would be pulled back lol. So I'm used to it being tight and neat and out of my way. Having you hair up is not healthy for your hair.. So why keep it long anyways? Well I'm getting married in 1 month 1 week and 1 day! I want my hair to be long and flowing.. Now afterwards is a totally different story lol..
Anyways.. I always get these horrible headaches, and they always end up being migraines towards the end of the headache. Then I have these symptoms along with my headaches/migraines: pounding, ringing, dizziness, nausea, hot/cold flashes, short blackouts, and sometimes a clammy feeling.. Not a fun thing to deal with.. I know having my hair growing out doesn't help it.. But like I said I want my hair long for when I say I do.. And I like it! But I don't like dealing with this BS! There are some days the headache is just there but I can cope with it and I just ignore it as much as possible.. But when it gets bad don't even whisper to me! Don't like them at all! Like always dealing with many other medical problems and other painful things in my life.. I try to just get used to it.. And ignore them a lot.. I just don't like the side effects I get from them sometimes.. I mean who wants to be dizzy, nauseous, ears ringing, head throbbing, hot/cold flashes, short blackouts (meaning if I move too fast or walk up or down the stairs it sometimes starts getting dark)
Anyways I think I'm going to close this post.. And try to lay down for a bit.. Oh BTW! I watched Never say Never by Justin Bieber himself lol.. And I will admit I liked it.. And I'm happy for the guy! Way to go JB! lol Ok I feel weird now! Have a nice day everyone! And may all your dreams, wishes, wants, needs, and desires be fulfilled ♥♥♥♥
Thanks for reading
Always,
Aleasha
Friday, May 25, 2012
Raise Your Voice with 1in10 and Fight for PCOS
Hello, I wanna tell you about a nonprofit organization that I am a
part of called 1in10inc.1in10inc is to help support women and their
loved ones who suffer from PCOS. (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome) We are
having a fundraiser to be able to raise money for important necessities
such as: pamphlets with information to help all PCOS sufferers, Donating
to research for PCOS, Merchandise, Giveaways, Contest Items to win and
more. But it takes making money to be able to do those things for our
followers, and supporters. The fundraiser ends Sunday May 27th. It would
mean a lot if you could help support 1in10inc and spread the word on
our Scentsy Party.. All proceeds go to 1in10inc for everything I listed
up above. That is why we are doing a fundraiser.. And when you or
someone else purchases an item on this fundraiser you can be entered to
win the hostess credits!! So please click on this link below and then
click on 1in10 (buy from party) and buy something for yourself, mom,
sister,or a friend and help 1in10 raise money for the sufferers with
PCOS!Thank you for taking the time to read this. Any help would be
greatly appreciated! I’ll post the link for the fundraiser page to
Scentsy and 1in10inc’s facebook page!
Thank you,
1in10inc Board Member
Aleasha Wheeler
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Thank you,
1in10inc Board Member
Aleasha Wheeler
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Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Prepping to become pregnant!
So my fiance and I have been ttc (trying to conceive) since January! We haven't had any luck in getting pregnant yet!!
Anyways I wanted to share about being in a same sex relationship ttc! First off it's extremely hard with no sperm! Trying to find a donor is a stressful process that's for sure!!
Well due to having problems looking for a donor that we liked and felt comfortable with, we were
starting to give up and lose faith that it'd ever happen!!
Well something has sparked in us!! First off Dawn was never really into having kids ever! But she is totally in love with the idea of creating a child! And I love her more and more for it!!
TTC is very very stressful, hard, overwhelming but in the same sense exciting!! We now officially have names picked out and we're in love with his/her names! Although we know that we'll probably only end up having just one child. We've picked out a boy and girl name!
Just about every time Dawn and I go anywhere and there is a baby store near by or baby section we automatically head towards the baby section/store! In the past I'd have to beg and drag Dawn to just look with me!
But I think Dawn has been bit by the baby bug! When I would bring it up in the past it wasn't a good idea! Now she's ready to take this next journey with me! I know she's afraid of messing up, not being good enough or being a bad mommy!
And I know for a fact she's going to be an amazing mommy!! Anyways, back to being bitten bye the baby bug! And running to look at baby stuff! Dawn has falling in love with us having a child!
I'm starting to have to pull her away, and beg her not to buy clothes and ect! Well I buckled and let her pick out these two adorable onesies and OMG they are precious!!
And I have to say that it's a very VERY BIG turn on seeing how excited she is about wanting a baby with me!! Haha! Sorry if it's tmi but it's the honest to god truth! I wish she could be the one to get me pregnant!! But a donor will due!
And I have to say these onesies are just absolutely previously adorable! And every time I look at them I get so excited!! And I fall more and more in love with her!! I love thinking about how amazing of a mother she's going to be!! And how big of a support system she is through all of this! I love you darling!
So I'm going to show you guys a picture of our precious onesies! Thank you for reading my post! And please if anyone can spare their prayers and some sticky icky baby dust it'd be very much appreciated!! And everyone is in my prayers and I wish you all sticky baby dust!
Always,
Aleasha
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I downloaded the blogger app and I'm pretty excited to use this app!! I just wanted to stop by and share that my fiance and have our official rings!! We'll see how this app does with posting!! Dawns ring is the band! The other is mine! I'm in love with my ring and dawn is in love with hers as well!!! And that's beautiful to me!! I cannot wait to marry her!! She's my soul mate!
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Monday, May 7, 2012
1in10 is having a Scentsy party and you all are invited! Go ahead go!
Do something for yourself while helping others! 1in10 is
having a Scentsy Party! Scentsy is a wickless alternative to scented
candles. No wick means no flame, no smoke, and no chemicals being
released into the air. Scentsy bars are made with a vegetable-based wax
and the highest grade fragrance oils available. They offer over 80
different fragrances, and have a warmer and accessories to suit any
style. Scentsy is a yummy and safe way to fill your home with fragrance!
The best part? When you order, you will be automatically entered into a drawing to win the Party's Hostess Prize! And, if you're a friend of us on FB, you get an extra entry - just because we love you!
100% of this show's profits are being donated to 1in10! The funds we receive from this party will be used for business cards and merchandise, and to help publish our "PCOS Packets" that we will be distributing to physician's offices to educate women about PCOS!
Check out our invite, and copy and paste the link into your browser's search bar to shop for a cause! Don't forget to look for the 1in10 Party and click "Buy from party" to be entered into the prize drawing!
Scentsy Website: https://joshandrhi.scentsy.us/Scentsy/Home
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1in10inc
Twitter: https://twitter.com/#!/1in10org
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/1in10/
1in10 Website: http://www.1-in-10.org/
Email: info@1-in-10.org
RAISE YOUR VOICE 1in10!!!!
Board Member
Aleasha Wheeler
The best part? When you order, you will be automatically entered into a drawing to win the Party's Hostess Prize! And, if you're a friend of us on FB, you get an extra entry - just because we love you!
100% of this show's profits are being donated to 1in10! The funds we receive from this party will be used for business cards and merchandise, and to help publish our "PCOS Packets" that we will be distributing to physician's offices to educate women about PCOS!
Check out our invite, and copy and paste the link into your browser's search bar to shop for a cause! Don't forget to look for the 1in10 Party and click "Buy from party" to be entered into the prize drawing!
Scentsy Website: https://joshandrhi.scentsy.us/Scentsy/Home
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1in10inc
Twitter: https://twitter.com/#!/1in10org
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/1in10/
1in10 Website: http://www.1-in-10.org/
Email: info@1-in-10.org
RAISE YOUR VOICE 1in10!!!!
Board Member
Aleasha Wheeler
Friday, April 13, 2012
Annoyed and Hurt all in one.. But that's to be expected!
Ok so.. My fiance and I want to do At Home Insemination from a donor.. Well it has come to my attention that members of my family think negatively on our choices.. Ok well first off.. The reason we are doing AHI (At Home Insemination) from a donor is because well we're a lesbian couple and we're lacking sperm! And everyone knows that IVF is EXPENSIVE! Just because we're doing AHI from a donor doesn't mean we aren't capable of parenting a child!! If you don't want to be there for us and support us then shut your mouth and buzz off! We don't need any negative remarks from anyone! As everyone knows TTC is very hard!! Specially when you have Infertility problems! Well there are some women that can just get looked at and end up PG! SO ANNOYING!! Idk I'm just hurt and pissed that my "OWN FAMILY" is denying my capabilities of parenting a child.. Sorry if the post offends anyone but honestly I do not give a damn! Obviously or I wouldn't be blogging about it! And you can personally kiss my ass and not be involved with Dawn and I's journey!
Saturday, March 17, 2012
1in10 Women have PCOS..
Did you know that 1in10inc is about supporting women and their partners through PCOS? What is PCOS? PCOS is Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndome.. Go to http://www.1-in-10.org/Home_Page.html and learn about us! And go to www.facebook.com/1in10inc and like on this page!!! We're so close to 400 likes it's amazing! It feels pretty good to be apart of an amazing sister hood like 1in10inc! So do me a favor and yourself and show some support and learn something new!
Putnam Hospital sucks..
So I ended up in the hospital.. Not fun.. Never going again.. I do not care if I'm bleeding from every part of my body!! I will NEVER go back! Ok well onto my story and meaning of this blog..
Well on 3-15-12 I went to Danbury CT. to go to court with my lovely fiancee Dawn. Well I have to use a cane as you all may know and they proceeded to say. "Ma'am can you walk through the metal detector without it?" Me "If I could walk through with out it I'd be walking with out it already wouldn't I?" Got a death look. Oh well don't care.. Don't ask stupid questions and I won't call you out! Anyways! I went through only to trip and twist myself on their stupid rug that was right there.. Dawn and a girl we were talking to could literally hear my back pop out.. Not good seeing I have FIVE herniations.. I literally almost passed out from the pain.. But I kept trucking a long until court was over.. I walked slowly to the car and curled up in the back seat crying to myself with the amount of pain.. (I don't really like to cry in public.) I then came home kept trying to move around cause I knew I'd get stiff if I didn't.. Then I bent over to change and OMG big mistake! I couldn't get up! Well I took 2 lortab 7.5's. Thank god I save them! I usually don't take them unless the pain gets really bad.. And then I took Zanaflex (muscle relaxer) cause I was having wild spasms in my back and neck and put a few patches on and cried myself to sleep.. Woke up the next day.. I could move a little better.. Well I was forcing myself to move like I was.. "Push Through The Pain Wheeler" I kept telling myself.. Well dawn and I went to the grocery store to get a prescription and I said I was going to walk down to my pharmacy to fax a letter for my EMG test.. BIG MISTAKE! Too far too fast.. I walked in and Anthony my pharmacist whom I love dearly ran to me cause I was falling over from pain and didn't realize it until I was in his arms.. I looked at him like why are you holding me? And he said need an ambulance you're white as a ghost! I said no I just need you to fax this for me and he said you bet! So he did that and I walked slowly out to the car where dawn was.. Sat there and started crying.. Realizing I need medical attention and didn't want it! So I ended up going to the ER cause my doctor said to.. Even though I have an appointment for this Monday the 26th.. So I listened like a good girl. I wish I hadn't. They were busy and crazy!! Did X-Ray's and said I needed to see a specialist for one of my medical problems they picked up on the X-Ray.. Mind you I never even saw the doctor until right before I left.. One of my medical problems could turn into Colon Cancer at any point in my life and I was starting to get scared.. I told the P.A. (Physician's Assistant 'who was AMAZING') that my sister had colon cancer at 30 something.. I'm only 3 years from 30 and I knew it was bound to happen.. Colon or Ovarian.. And explained to him why and he agreed. I told him that I was tested by my ob and gi doctors and they told me I'd eventually end up with one or the other or even both.. So the P.A. wanted to admit me to the hospital and I was like ok.. Well he went to talk to the doctor and the doctor told him no because I don't have insurance.. BS right? Ugh this economy and country sucks ass.. So I'm just getting better on my own and taking care of myself better than I was and eating healthier still and working out.. I've never been treated so badly in my life!! And when the doctor came in finally he emotionally beat me up to the point of me crying and the PA hugged me and said I'm so sorry he just said those mean things to you and for me to report him.. So I did today! I hope no one has to go through what I went through for 8 hours.. I came home cried myself to sleep and woke up with a smile and a better attitude on life today.
Well on 3-15-12 I went to Danbury CT. to go to court with my lovely fiancee Dawn. Well I have to use a cane as you all may know and they proceeded to say. "Ma'am can you walk through the metal detector without it?" Me "If I could walk through with out it I'd be walking with out it already wouldn't I?" Got a death look. Oh well don't care.. Don't ask stupid questions and I won't call you out! Anyways! I went through only to trip and twist myself on their stupid rug that was right there.. Dawn and a girl we were talking to could literally hear my back pop out.. Not good seeing I have FIVE herniations.. I literally almost passed out from the pain.. But I kept trucking a long until court was over.. I walked slowly to the car and curled up in the back seat crying to myself with the amount of pain.. (I don't really like to cry in public.) I then came home kept trying to move around cause I knew I'd get stiff if I didn't.. Then I bent over to change and OMG big mistake! I couldn't get up! Well I took 2 lortab 7.5's. Thank god I save them! I usually don't take them unless the pain gets really bad.. And then I took Zanaflex (muscle relaxer) cause I was having wild spasms in my back and neck and put a few patches on and cried myself to sleep.. Woke up the next day.. I could move a little better.. Well I was forcing myself to move like I was.. "Push Through The Pain Wheeler" I kept telling myself.. Well dawn and I went to the grocery store to get a prescription and I said I was going to walk down to my pharmacy to fax a letter for my EMG test.. BIG MISTAKE! Too far too fast.. I walked in and Anthony my pharmacist whom I love dearly ran to me cause I was falling over from pain and didn't realize it until I was in his arms.. I looked at him like why are you holding me? And he said need an ambulance you're white as a ghost! I said no I just need you to fax this for me and he said you bet! So he did that and I walked slowly out to the car where dawn was.. Sat there and started crying.. Realizing I need medical attention and didn't want it! So I ended up going to the ER cause my doctor said to.. Even though I have an appointment for this Monday the 26th.. So I listened like a good girl. I wish I hadn't. They were busy and crazy!! Did X-Ray's and said I needed to see a specialist for one of my medical problems they picked up on the X-Ray.. Mind you I never even saw the doctor until right before I left.. One of my medical problems could turn into Colon Cancer at any point in my life and I was starting to get scared.. I told the P.A. (Physician's Assistant 'who was AMAZING') that my sister had colon cancer at 30 something.. I'm only 3 years from 30 and I knew it was bound to happen.. Colon or Ovarian.. And explained to him why and he agreed. I told him that I was tested by my ob and gi doctors and they told me I'd eventually end up with one or the other or even both.. So the P.A. wanted to admit me to the hospital and I was like ok.. Well he went to talk to the doctor and the doctor told him no because I don't have insurance.. BS right? Ugh this economy and country sucks ass.. So I'm just getting better on my own and taking care of myself better than I was and eating healthier still and working out.. I've never been treated so badly in my life!! And when the doctor came in finally he emotionally beat me up to the point of me crying and the PA hugged me and said I'm so sorry he just said those mean things to you and for me to report him.. So I did today! I hope no one has to go through what I went through for 8 hours.. I came home cried myself to sleep and woke up with a smile and a better attitude on life today.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
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Friday, February 24, 2012
Only need 48 more likes!!
Come on we only need 48 more likes to get to 250!! Wouldn't you love to be the first to know about our first ever giveaway!!?? Spread the love with women suffering from PCOS and For their spouses, family, and friends that support them!! If you have a friend, family member or your spouse what ever may be suffering from PCOS.. Show them how you support them by spreading the word and liking the facebook page! Reblog, Tweet, Blog, Facebook, and ect about the facebook. We'll have a website soon. It's in process! We have a lot of exciting things happening in the future with fun games, contest and giveaways!!! Show your support and love!
Thanks for Reading
Board Member
Of 1in10 Inc
Aleasha Wheeler
http://www.facebook.com/1in10inc
Sunday, February 19, 2012
1in10 Women have PCOS
Hello my dear lovely readers!! Please take the time to take a few seconds out of your day and go to the facebook link under the 1in10 picture .. Did you know that 1 in 10 women are diagnosed with PCOS a year?? You may know someone that has PCOS.. Or you may have it yourself.. If you'd like to have information at your fingertips and be apart of an amazing organization please like on this facebook page and spread the word of 1in10!! We want to spread the word on PCOS and help anyone with questions!! We have a lot of exciting contest and giveaways coming up soon! Check in on the page to hear more information!! Thanks for your time!! Take care!!
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
An Amazing Valentine's Day!!
Had an amazing day with my Fiance!! Spent the day low key with her and just really soaked up time together.. We turned off our phone and have starting doing this thing where we don't get onto our laptops or phones.. It's nice to just have time for one another and be able to really soak it all up.. You realize with all the electronics and gadgets you get sucked into them quicker than you realize.. And in the end it can cause friction between you and your spouse.. And I'm sure everyone can agree that your spouse is way more important that what's going on online.. I know that's the truth for me.. Anyways.. Back to VDay! We laid in bed snuggling for a long time just talking and holding one another.. Opened up our gifts and snuggled a little more and then watched some great movies with one another and then I cooked a little dinner for the two of us.. And while I was cooking my lovely Fiance took rose petals and spread them all over the dinner trays we eat off of.. And had Battery lit candles lit.. It was so romantic and from the heart! You realize how special little things like that is so amazing and warming to the heart.. I'm one lucky lady to be in love with an amazingly beautifully thoughtful woman!! She is my other half that makes me whole.. I was empty for a long time.. And I couldn't imagine my life without her.. She's my world and reasoning for having a purpose in life!! Anyways I hope all had a great Valentine's Day!! Sorry for being here and there in this blog.. I'm sleepy lol
Aleasha
Aleasha
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